In Loving Memory of John "Jay" Bernard Albrink III

March 31st, 1948 – May 11th, 2025

It is with heavy hearts and deep sorrow that we announce the passing of John "Jay" Bernard Albrink III, a beloved Dad, Champ (Grandfather), Sweetheart/husband, and veteran, who departed this world peacefully on May 11, 2025, at the age of 77.

Born in Ironton, Ohio, son of John B. Albrink Jr., and Marjorie Hunter Albrink on March 31st, 1948, Jay lived a life marked by courage, reliability, and devotion. A proud Army veteran, Jay served his country with unwavering dedication and honor, always carrying himself with the quiet strength of a true soldier.

Jay was more than his uniform, though. He was a devoted father to his son Brad, his daughter Abby, and his son-in-law Kyle, who all knew him as a source of steady love, sound advice, and wisdom. His eyes would light up at the laughter of his two grandchildren, Hendricks and Cruz, whom he adored beyond words. He was thrilled and overjoyed to hear of the coming birth of a third grandchild. Jay was deeply committed to spending time with them in Texas, making the trip often and always bringing donuts for the boys—a simple gesture that became a beloved tradition. He took great joy in watching the boys play soccer, while sitting on the back patio, sipping old fashioneds and talking about life and parenthood. His advice, always rooted in love, came with encouragement and affirmation that left a lasting impact. He made a point to be present for birthdays, holidays, and family gatherings, showing up to enjoy good company, good food, and good times. Jay loved to laugh—he often measured a visit by how much laughter was shared, smiling wide as he'd say, "We laughed lots." With every visit, every story he shared and every lesson he passed down was a reflection of the life he built with care and purpose.

Jay was a loving brother to Dr. Michael Albrink, and a cherished brother-in-law to Dr. Karen Wells Albrink. He was preceded in death by his middle brother, Jim Albrink. He was a caring uncle to Uriah and wife Laken, Luke and wife Noelle, Kelly and husband Adam, Shannon and grand nieces and nephews. Each summer, he always looked forward to going to the annual family reunion at Holden Beach in North Carolina.

But above all, Jay's heart belonged to his sweetheart, Shawn—the love and light of his life, and his best friend. What they shared was rare—not loud, but deeply felt and unmistakably real. Their bond was supportive, tender, and built on communication, devotion, and affection. They enjoyed sharing quiet moments together, whether Jay was watching two college football games at the same time on two tvs, or while bird watching in the morning over coffee. He loved to recount stories to Shawn from his childhood whenever inspiration struck him. When Shawn texted Jay after school/work to say she was on her way, he always asked her what her drink preference was. She would text back, "dirty vodka martini". When Shawn arrived Jay would greet her by saying, "Welcome to My Home,"

then hug and kiss her. The drink was always perfect.

Jay was an avid reader, who could always be found with a book or three any day of the week. You could always find him on the couch enjoying the afternoon sun, or in bed reading while waiting for sleep to find him. Jay was a man of routine, and he found satisfaction in the steady rhythm of well-worn habits and daily rituals. Every spring and autumn, he and his friends would go fishing at the White in Arkansas for rainbow and brown trout. He never missed his biweekly Duplicate Bridge days at Fun and Games in Northpark Mall, where he enjoyed catching up and joking with his friends.

Jay always had music in his heart, and started playing the trombone in high-school. As an adult, he joined the Nichols Hills' Band and played at Kite park every 3rd Thursday of the month during summer. Jay approached every hobby with enthusiasm and heart.

Jay will be remembered for his quiet strength, his deep kindness, and the way he made everyone

feel a little more at home in the world. He leaves behind a legacy of love, service, and integrity.

A Celebration of Jays life will be held on Saturday, August 16th, 2025 11:00 am to 1:00 pm at Spring Creek Baptist Church. All who knew and loved Jay are welcome to attend.