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IN LOVING MEMORY OF
Ralph Charles
Pfenninger
November 10, 1932 – April 1, 2023
Ralph Charles Pfenninger, 90, of Oklahoma City, OK, passed away on April 1, 2023.
Ralph was born on November 10, 1932 to Alice Dicus and Ralph E. Pfenninger in Scott
City, KS, spending his early years growing up on the farm.
Ralph married the love of his life, Billee Jeanne Maxwell in 1949. The two spent the first
five years of their marriage farming before moving to Hutchinson, KS to pursue what
would be the start of a successful career in business. In that time the two had three
children, Steve, Lewis, and Susan. Ralph and Billee Jeanne would go on to be married
for 73 years, serving as a guidepost of love, trust, and stability for all who were lucky
enough to witness their immense love for one another.
Ralph and Billee Jeanne moved to Oklahoma City, OK in 1977 where he owned R&L
Texaco for nearly 30 years prior to retiring at age 62. Ralph spent his retired years
volunteering for Provide-A-Ride for 17 years, logging nearly 5,000 hours taking people
to doctor's appointments and doing something he did best in all aspects of his life,
providing thoughtful conversation and making people smile with his one-of-a-kind sense
of humor.
Ralph could often be found with a fishing pole in hand, hunting with family in Kansas,
reading a book in his recliner or woodworking. A devoted husband and father, Ralph
truly shined as the quintessential grandpa. He clocked countless hours supporting his
grandchildren and great grandchildren at the ballfield, grandparents' days at school,
plays, giving wise words of wisdom like "bored people are boring people", and handing
out the crispest dollar bills after a job well-done.
Ralph was preceded in death by his mother, Alice Dicus, father, Ralph E. Pfenninger,
stepmother, Mary Pfenninger, brother Walter Pfenninger, and sister Rose Marie Torson.
He is survived by his loving wife, Billee Jeanne, sister Margaret Cook, son Steve
Pfenninger, his wife Mary, son Lewis Pfenninger, and daughter Susan LeBegue.
Ralph's legacy is also survived by seven grandchildren and eleven great-grandchildren,
Heather Rimmer (Reese & Hudson), Sarah Halley and husband Josh (Nathan &
Kaitlyn), Stephanie Noel (Alyssa Bartlett and husband Blake, Jacob & Kathryn), Jennifer
LeBegue, Brian Pfenninger and wife Kristin (Story & Thea), Michelle LeBegue, and
Christina McCluskey and husband Joe (Carolyn & Owen).
Viewing will be held at Vondel L. Smith & Son Mortuary 13125 N. MacArthur Blvd. OKC
73142 on Wednesday, April 5th from 4-8 PM.
Services will be at Resurrection Memorial Cemetery Chapel 7801 NW Expressway OKC
73132 on Thursday, April 6th at 11 AM.
Floral arrangements through Morrison Floral & Greenhouses, 4801 N. Meridian, OKC
73112.
First Visitation
Vondel Smith & Son Mortuary North
4:00 - 8:00 pm
Service
Resurrection Memorial Cemetery Chapel
Starts at 11:00 am
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